The law of attraction is outdated

The Law of Attraction Is Outdated—Here’s Why!

July 07, 20253 min read

Ever feel like you’re doing everything “right” with manifestation, but it’s just not working? You’re not alone.

The law of attraction is outdated

For years, everyone and their favorite manifestation coach has been talking about “The Law of Attraction.” Visualize it, think about it, and it’ll show up—right?
Except… what about those times you did the vision boards, said the affirmations, kept your vibe high—and still felt stuck?

Here’s some real talk:
The Law of Attraction, the way it’s usually taught, is outdated. And honestly? It’s keeping too many powerful women stuck in frustration and self-blame.


Why the Old Law of Attraction Approach Doesn’t Work

Here’s the thing—most mainstream LOA teachings focus on thoughts and feelings but ignore what’s running the show underneath: your subconscious beliefs, nervous system, trauma, and energetic blocks.

You can “think positive” all day, but if you still don’t feel safe, worthy, or truly open to receive… the Universe picks up on that.
It’s not just about what you think—it’s about what you believe, deep down in your body and spirit.

That’s why so many of us were left wondering,

“Why does it work for everyone but me?”

The truth? It was never just about thinking happy thoughts.


What Actually Magnetizes Your Desires?

Magnetize your life

Manifestation is about alignment, embodiment, and healing—not just “attracting.”

  • Alignment means your beliefs, body, energy, and actions all match your vision.

  • Embodiment means you become the version of you who lives your desires now, not someday.

  • Healing means facing and clearing the blocks, wounds, and old stories that say you’re not worthy or it’s not safe.

When you do this deeper work, you stop “chasing” your desires and start receiving them naturally. You shift from hoping and wishing to knowing and allowing.


Why I Teach a Different Way

I tried all the “classic” Law of Attraction hacks for years. Some worked, but most left me frustrated, feeling like I was broken or missing something.
But when I learned about nervous system regulation, rewiring beliefs, and actually healing—not just hustling—I manifested more peace, money, and genuine connection than ever before.

That’s why my coaching and courses go deeper:

  • We talk about your nervous system, not just your vision board.

  • We rewire your beliefs at the subconscious level.

  • We honor your healing journey—no bypassing, no shame.

You deserve manifestation tools that work for real women with real stories—not just those who already feel “good enough.”


A New Way to Manifest

If you’re tired of the old advice, let this be your permission slip to drop what’s outdated and claim a new way:

  • It’s safe to go deeper.

  • You’re not doing it wrong.

  • You are worthy of everything you desire, just as you are.

When you shift from “attracting” to aligning, the Universe can finally meet you where you are.


Inner Peace Affirmation

Inner peace

“I am safe to let go of what I cannot control.”

If you want even more soul-nourishing support, you can download my full set of Inner Peace Affirmations for free. Click Here


Ready for more?

  • Book a Free Clarity Call if you’re ready for personalized support and healing. [Book here]

  • Listen to my latest podcast episode:
    🎧 “Call in the Right Thing, Not the Loud Thing”
    (Now streaming—catch it anytime!)
    [Tune in here]

  • Watch my newest YouTube episode:
    📺 Why the Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work Anymore | Time to Shift
    (Now live!)
    [Watch here]

  • And mark your calendar:
    🎙️ “The Law of Attraction Is Outdated—Here’s Why (and What Works Now)” drops on the Her Magnetic Era podcast July 14th at 7 AM EST!


✨ Recommended Reading

You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero

You are badass


Ready to break through doubt and start living life on your own terms? You Are a Badass is a down-to-earth, sassy, and deeply empowering guide for anyone ready to reclaim their worth, shift their mindset, and actually see results. This book will remind you that you’re more powerful than you think—no matter what the old Law of Attraction taught you!


You’re not behind, and you’re not broken.
You’re just realigning—and that’s the most powerful shift of all.

With love,
Felicia

Coach Felicia Carter is a certified life coach, manifestation mentor, and the founder of The Breakthrough Room. Known for her warm, soulful approach, Felicia guides women to heal, realign, and manifest their most magnetic lives through practical mindset shifts and sacred strategy. She is passionate about helping women step into their worth, let go of survival mode, and finally receive everything they desire.

Coach Felicia Carter

Coach Felicia Carter is a certified life coach, manifestation mentor, and the founder of The Breakthrough Room. Known for her warm, soulful approach, Felicia guides women to heal, realign, and manifest their most magnetic lives through practical mindset shifts and sacred strategy. She is passionate about helping women step into their worth, let go of survival mode, and finally receive everything they desire.

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